Technically I am six years elder to him, but we haven’t acknowledged the age difference ever. He has fought with me, argued, made me cry, all of that bitter banter. Ain’t that how siblings live in harmony?
We are celebrating Raksha-bandhan in India today. It is an exclusive brother-sister festival, where sisters tie Rakhi (it’s like a band) to their bros and brothers, well they shower us with gifts! It also has a solemn message behind it, particularly that the brothers vow they would always protect and take care of their sisters. It is an endearing custom. I have such fond memories of it from the past.
If I flashback to the very start, I remember not being very enthused with my brother being born on his very first day. I was a pampered six year old, my mom had left me for the first time to go to nana’s place and he was kind of snatching my territory with his cute little actions (Oh he was damn cute back in those days!). Peace was somehow achieved in a day or two with my dad’s efforts and then there was no point of return.
As he grew, he would fight with me over every little thing. We were different. He liked paneer, I liked potatoes. I stacked up fairy tales, and he would pile up his monthly cricket magazines. I would watch Bollywood songs, and he would watch WWE. We were a team though despite all anomalies. Perfectly acting in co-ordination. We knew what to hide from parents and what not. Never tell-taled. :D. We would play video games together, collect pokemon stickers. Even though shit scared, we would buy DVDs of horror movies and watch it in one blanket, our mom having no clue. Then I left for my higher studies, and I remember the day I had to leave, he ran to some fancy shop and bought me this very cute kitty soft toy. Melted my heart for all it was. <3.
Now we have grown up, I am here working and he is doing his studies. Times have changed. We occasionally meet. And we hardly call each other. Those formalities have never suited both of us. I have his back, I guess he knows. Will only call me when there is trouble in paradise. Every time I see him, he annoys me to the core. Sometimes, he does it purposefully. In a bigger picture, I totally love him though. We have that sort of a relationship which you least worry about. Ain’t that how the siblings function anyway. :). Kind of missing that idiotic creature today.
Perhaps you should print out your Post and slip it into an appropriate card and give it to him? He would probably laugh it off and make some “odd sister” remark but, deep down, he will appreciate the thoughts from his sister.
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Yeah may be….never gave that a thought Colin…:).. That is some good suggestion. I might actually do it..
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Happy Raksha-bandhan!
It sounds like you and your brother love each other very much, Roopam.
Melinda
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Aww..thank you Melinda…that sounds very sweet coming from you..and yeah…we don’t express much though..
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When my mum was pregnant with me she asked my two older sisters what they wanted. One replied a brother, the other replied a dog, both were disappointed when I came out
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Haha….I guess that happens. We don’t exactly know what we want until we get it..i am sure your sisters changed their mind after you came out..:D
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Not till I was about 13, and she had moved out and gotten herself a dog 😉
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:D…haha..don’t we love to hate..
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Such a sweet relationship between you two! The age gap between my bro and I is double that of yours 😛 and I just hope we can exist far yet near just like you guys 🙂
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Whoa nice! And I hope you do too.:)
These are like unspeakable sort of bonds..you know they exist in the background..
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Exactly how I’d put it! You know you have each other’s backs and vice versa 🙂
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How sweet it is.. Happy Raksha Bandhan.. 🙂
May the Almighty shower blessings over you both cute sis & bro.. ❤
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Thank you nimz for such kind wishes..:) ❤
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gee George!…thank you for the reblog..:)
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My pleasure indeed ));<))))) 👀 ♥ * ͜ * ♥ 👀
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